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Use Consquences Wisely

Consequences are one of the best tools for teaching children to make good choices and to be responsible for their actions.

DO…

  • Choose consequences YOU can live with!
  • Involve child in determining consequences. (5 & older)
  • Let child know the consequences in advance.
  • Always follow through consistently.
  • Apply consequences with empathy. “I know it is hard to have to miss out on a fun time with your friends.”
  • Express belief that your child can make wise choices. “I know you’ll make a better choice next time.”

DON'T…

  • Expect 100% success
  • Make the consequences too stiff.
  • Show your anger
  • Talk too much.
  • Forget to reevaluate consequences and their effectiveness as your child matures.

 

Source: Parenting Quick Tips, ©Practical Parent Education