Use Consquences Wisely
Consequences are one of the best tools for teaching children to make good choices and to be responsible for their actions.
DO…
- Choose consequences YOU can live with!
- Involve child in determining consequences. (5 & older)
- Let child know the consequences in advance.
- Always follow through consistently.
- Apply consequences with empathy. “I know it is hard to have to miss out on a fun time with your friends.”
- Express belief that your child can make wise choices. “I know you’ll make a better choice next time.”
DON'T…
- Expect 100% success
- Make the consequences too stiff.
- Show your anger
- Talk too much.
- Forget to reevaluate consequences and their effectiveness as your child matures.
Source: Parenting Quick Tips, ©Practical Parent Education

